Praise, flattery, exaggerated manners and fine high-sounding words were not part of Lakota politeness. Excessive manners were put down as insincere, and the constant talker was considered rude and thoughtless. Conversation was never begun at once, or in a hurried manner. No one was quick with a question, no matter how important, and no one was pressed for an answer. A pause giving time for thought was the truly courteous way of beginning and conducting a conversation.
-Chief Luther Standing Bear (Ota Kte, Mochunozhin) , 1868-1939
